Interviews

Danny on Creating Things

“Tell me what you love, and I will tell you who you are.” –Arsène Houssaye

I was interested in trying something different from an ordinary blog. Rather than little old me randomly opining on the state of the world (it’s a mess), the latest book I read (M Train by Patti Smith –excellent), or celery (aka Satan’s dental floss), I wanted to set up a sort of confession album, a 19th-Century practice in which friends asked each other questions, the most famous one being the Proust Questionnaire. For this confession album, I figured what better way to get to know people than to ask them to talk about something they love. And so, here are the questions, with the hopes of learning more about some interesting people and the things that move and shape them. This week, it’s Danny on making things.

What is one thing (object, idea, practice, etc.) that you love?

I love making (mostly artistic) things - the process of visualizing something, figuring out how to create it, and seeing it through to completion.

How did you first come to discover your love of making things? Do you remember?

I don’t - I’ve always liked it. Though I’ve become more realistic about things I can do (write, draw) and things where my skills aren’t up to par (e.g. woodworking).

Do you feel like anyone mentored you when you first discovered this love or in developing your love? If so, who and under what circumstances? 

Not really, and I sort of wish someone had because it might have taken me less time to figure out the importance of follow through and methodical effort. I have always had far more ideas than finished projects.

What do you love about it?

I love the process of creating something new and original, and also seeing how the reality manifests - usually somewhat differently than I originally envisioned.

How do you express your love for making things?

By doing it. I don’t really talk about it much, I have too many unfinished things started and never completed. At this point I prefer to share work when it’s either complete or has a concrete plan for completion.

How do you feel making things makes your life better?

The process of creation is intrinsically fulfilling for me.

If someone were interested in discovering more about making things and creation, where would you direct them? Where would they start? 

I think having the basic tools is important. For writers, I’d suggest classes both on literature and also on the process of creative writing. For artists, I’d suggest a range of classes on a variety of media so they can see what resonates with them and can expand their toolbox. Whatever the medium of expression, reading/watching/consuming other art/writing is important.


Elizabeth on Discovery

“Tell me what you love, and I will tell you who you are.” –Arsène Houssaye

I was interested in trying something different from an ordinary blog. Rather than little old me randomly opining on the state of the world (it’s a mess), the latest book I read (M Train by Patti Smith –excellent), or celery (aka Satan’s dental floss), I wanted to set up a sort of confession album, a 19th-Century practice in which friends asked each other questions, the most famous one being the Proust Questionnaire. For this confession album, I figured what better way to get to know people than to ask them to talk about something they love. And so, here are the questions, with the hopes of learning more about some interesting people and the things that move and shape them.


What is one thing (object, idea, practice, etc.) that you love?

Discovery. Not to be confused with “discovering.” The thing being discovered (am confusing myself) doesn’t have to be new, just new to me or someone I share with, be it a fact, a place, a concept, or something else (object, idea, practice, etc.--see what I did?). Yay, discovery!


How did you first come to discover discovery? Hah! That sounds funny. But do you remember?
No way could I recall the first time, probably the whole baby sees themselves in the mirror thing, playing with my own fingers and toes, something, but I have no memory of it. Thinking of how that moment must have been, though, gives me a thrill. That had to be the beginning, the beginning of the journey, and it will be a lifelong one.  


Do you feel like anyone mentored you when you first discovered this love or in developing your love of discovery? If so, who and under what circumstances?

I don’t know that anything besides natural curiosity propelled me into it, but I do know that my love for it is nurtured by people who share a similar love for discovery. It’s a real symbiosis, and it’s happening almost constantly, with every interaction. And it’s universal. Learn something new!


What do you love about it?

What’s not to love? That’s the thing! Even if it’s something I wish I hadn’t known, it’s something new. The act of discovery–the process–cannot be stopped! That’s what makes it special! I love that even in my perceived darkest of times, there has been some discovery involved.


How do you express your love for it?

I share things–some would say overshare–when I am able, and then the joy of discovery is vicarious but no less wonderful. To see the joy of discovery in someone else is beyond thrilling! Especially if it thrilled me first, LOL! I’ve said “thrill” a couple of times, but it is such a rush! It’s the best word! 


How do you feel discovery makes your life better?

It opens my heart, broadens my mind, and expands my horizons, which I figure are some of the most basic life purposes anyway. And because it comes so easily it can be done no matter the circumstances. It gives you everything, and more often than not, takes nothing away. 


If someone were interested in discovering more about this thing you love, where would you direct them? Where would they start?


Interacting with curious, studied, self-educating people is an amazing way to do it, but if that’s not immediately possible (looking at you, pandemics and power outages), pick up a book, go for a walk, do something new. It is impossible not to discover. Again, that’s the beauty of it. 


Warren on Quiet

“Tell me what you love, and I will tell you who you are.” –Arsène Houssaye

I was interested in trying something different from an ordinary blog. Rather than little old me randomly opining on the state of the world (it’s a mess), the latest book I read (M Train by Patti Smith –excellent), or celery (aka Satan’s dental floss), I wanted to set up a sort of confession album, a 19th-Century practice in which friends asked each other questions, the most famous one being the Proust Questionnaire. For this confession album, I figured what better way to get to know people than to ask them to talk about something they love. And so, here are the questions, with the hopes of learning more about some interesting people and the things that move and shape them. Today, we have Warren talking about his love of quiet.

 

What is one thing (object, idea, practice, etc.) that you love?

I love being in the quiet. It helps me shuffle words around.
Moving words around is difficult when I hear a TV or a radio or a conversation taking place. I don’t mind it when the refrigerator hums, though.
But even though I really love quiet, I also really love music. They live in two separate compartments. The moment dictates which compartment is opened.

How did you first come to discover your love of quiet? Do you remember?

It was an early morning in October about 5-6 years ago. Maybe around 5am? The refrigerator was humming. The heat was on.
I was able to gather my thoughts and place them in a ‘living’ document.
Thoughts for me are like cats. You can herd them, but the success rate is very low and full of scarring.
I find if I’m in a quiet room, the thoughts will arrive with minimal risk of physical injury.

Do you feel like anyone mentored you when you first discovered this love or in developing your love? If so, who and under what circumstances?

I can’t say I had a mentor, but I can say I feel encouraged in the quiet. I was also encouraged to rearrange words when I was in the 10th grade. Mrs. Vaughan. A kind and thoughtful teacher. I think this was the first time someone encouraged me to be creative with writing.
Was she there with me 5-6 years ago in October? Maybe.
I think many people are with you when it’s quiet.

What do you love about quiet?

I can think in the quiet. Noise makes thinking harder. Noise is like a wind that makes it tough for thoughts to move in the directions they want to go. But noise can also be helpful. Sometimes when a noise pushes and pulls, I’ll end up in an unexpected and interesting place.And when it’s quiet, I unpack my RDA of noises and separate them into different bins. Some noises I’ll revisit. Some I’ll keep for a rainy day or a Saturday. Some noises go straight into the trash bin. Okay. Many noises go into the trash bin.

How do you express your love for quiet?

I get up early and have coffee. I honor the quiet by keeping noises to a minimum. Noise also includes conversation. My wife honors my quiet with no conversation until after 7. She will, if needed, let me know if the house is on fire.

How do you feel quiet makes your life better?

Quiet brings structure. It is a place built for thinking and shuffling. Normally I don’t have much structure. My atoms tend to float about and leave for vacation without telling me.

If someone were interested in discovering more about quiet, where would you direct them? Where would they start? 

The best place to start is to find a place that’s quiet. It may be at home or in a park or at the library. Ambient noise is always around, and to me, ambient normally doesn’t distract. Bring paper and pen or a laptop or a phone or a scribe.
Recall a noise or don’t. Rearrange a few words or don’t. Read a story or don’t. Quiet is flexible. You can do almost anything when it’s quiet.